Sexual problems and solutions / Little desire for sex - what can I do?:
If you feel little in your vagina, everything is still alright with you. You simply haven't learned how to feel more in your vagina yet.
Why do I feel so little in my vagina?
You have not yet learned how to experience touch in your vagina in a pleasant and arousing way. When you masturbate, you probably focus mainly on your clitoris and the rest of your external genitals. This means you're not practicing feeling your vagina or getting aroused by taking something in with your vagina. You can find out why practicing is so important in this text.
Do other women feel more than I do?
Many women feel a similar way. That's why orgasms from clitoral stimulation are much more common than orgasms from vaginal stimulation. The clitoris is partially on the outside of the genitals. Girls and women are therefore more likely to focus their attention on the clitoris than on the vagina. Furthermore, the clitoris is incredibly sensitive, and women quickly discover that touching it can be arousing. Inside the vagina, you have to explore more.
What if I don't enjoy having a penis in my vagina?
If you don't feel much in your vagina, then it's clear that you don't enjoy vaginal intercourse — i.e., a penis in your vagina — very much. It's also understandable if you don't particularly want to feel a penis in your vagina. You may be so unfamiliar with your vagina that sexual intercourse is impossible or very painful because your vagina "closes." If this applies to you, you will certainly be interested in this chapter.
What can I do to feel more in my vagina?
Please read these tips.
Why should I know about the vagina?
You may have read for the first time in this text that the sensitivity of the vagina can be changed through practice and by paying more attention. A lack of information can lead to problems. For instance, some women believe that what arouses them sexually is unchangeable. It's important to know that you have the right to accurate, up-to-date information about sexuality.