My wife and I engage in a couple of positions ( doggy-style, missionary, prone bone for examples), all of which allow me to control the pace and also to prevent an injury for both parties. My wife mentioned how she wanted to try being on top, and I shared that interest. However, my wife, upon penetration, would sort of lift up and land back down on my penis. There was a moment where a penile injury could have occurred and we stopped using this position. I love my wife and I know it's not her favorite position, but it's a position we still think about and I want try it again for her.
What do we need to do to make it safer and avoid a sort of jumping and falling type of stimulation?
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As with all positions, you need to give yourself some time and try it out a few times. Only then will you know whether you really like it and whether this position is right for you.
If the penis does not leave the vagina completely in the position you have described, there can be no accidents that cause injury.
I notice three points in your description: firstly, you seem to have a great fear of injury and are therefore more concerned with controlling the situation than enjoying it. There is actually only a risk of injury if the penis hits the partner's perineum with a full erection and great force. Injuries of this kind can happen, but they are not common. The second thing I notice: You don't seem to have much confidence in your wife or trust that she won't hurt you. Why is that? The third point: I don't know if I've understood correctly, it sounds as if only one of the partners is active and the other lets things happen. To make your sex life even more enjoyable and interesting, it would be advisable for both partners to be active during intercourse.
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