I'm male, 27. I've not had a lot of experience with women. I keep telling myself it's because "the right one" hasn't met me yet. But i might be lying to myself. Of the few times i've had intercourse, it didnt work. I always lost it. I attribute it to using condoms. But what freaks me out is that i felt totally lost, i mean my penis did. Didnt feel anything. This is actually scary.
So, bottom line, im scared of intercourse. But i want to not be scared. I want to be able to enjoy it. Can you help me?
By the way. I masturbate. A lot, actually. It always works. So what's wrong?
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I can only assume, but I believe the issue is that, when masturbating, you stimulate your penis in a completely different way than during vaginal intercourse. This means you have learned a technique for arousal that is not suitable for sexual intercourse. There may be much more pressure and/or friction than a vagina can ever provide. This is typically the cause for lack of sensation inside the vagina. Add a condom to the mix, and your penis and brain are totally lost.
The good news is: All is well with you and your penis. You just need to learn a sexual "language" that translates better to vaginal intercourse. Please read our text about sexual learning. We learn through repetition, and repetition means practice. I recommend these practice tips for vaginal intercourse. You'll see in these tips that including a condom in practice is also crucial, to train your penis to feel more when you use one.
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